16 May 2012

FAKE

Sometimes in your real life you would find fake friendships. I mean it was happened when there is someone who want you every times they need you. They say sweet things, praise you in front of your face. However, they talked bad about you behind your back. 
To be honest, I really hate them.
Finding one real friends is hard nowadays (and I miss my jhs friend, so much T.T). But there tons of fake one. 
This is what I've found after I typing "fake friendship" through google:

"A true friend is very difficult to find in this society today. Every body can say that a person is their friend, but not indentifying if that person is a true or a fake friend at all.
Fake friends always come expect a person to come visit, call and see about them, but they don't want to give in the same effort. Fake friends are never there whenever one needs them the most. This means they got themselves and other objectives on their minds.This also means they don't put any type of effort to see if you are okay, or if one is down.
Too, fake friends always have a negative judgemental attitude! One cannot tell them about their dreams and abilities that they want to accomplish! They are so quick to laugh and criticize a person in their presence in your face saying- " you can't do that! That's impossible!" They are always trying to talk a person out of their dreams. 
This is the one I cannot stand most of all. Fake friends always go tell other people's business, but they don't want others to tell their business. They always going around gossip to other people's secrets. However, one can tell  fake friend that, " you promise me that you won't tell a soul about this!"

By any means they tell any secrets or personal things about you to other people. However, they have abused your inner-circle, which means you have let them in about who you are. Forgive them, but if they want another chance, make them work and earn your trust. Most likely, they will do it again. 

A true friend is always there whenever you need them even during the rough times, tend to see if you are okay, always shows that he or she cares about you. This is what one calls true sacrifice! But true friends don't abuse the word sacrifice at all.
A true friend can be trusted with the deep things about yourself! A true friend won't tell your secrets and personal business to others. That true friend always keeps their promise, never judges  in a negative, listen to what you have to say. Too, A true friend have a bond so strong with the other person, which they don't abuse their inner-circles with each other."
Just be honest, please! If you dislike someone from the beginning, told them directly. You don't have to force yourself to be their fake friends. And the most important at all, you don't have to act like you care about them. It was tiring, isn't it?
miss my junior high school friends very much T____T

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